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holy shit...

Just got this from an email about the 5 Love Languages. My #1 is Words of Affirmation. 

"People are typically at their best when they are dating. If you’re dating someone who knows your love language but refuses to speak it, it should indicate to you that your partner is selfish. In this case, her boyfriend was into himself and not into loving her. If that’s what dating him is like, imagine what being married to him would be like."

To be fair I didn't know about this for the first 26 years of marriage so it's it fair to hold him responsible? Probably... I'm also tired of all of this... 

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