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Dear Jeanne...


    I don't know what to tell you.  I know you are struggling with this situation, and in your heart, you just want comfort and happiness.  What would honestly give you that?  Him moving back into the bedroom but still increasing his Snapchat score? You living alone?  You divorced?  He is saying all the right things but he did that in December and January and your gut lead you to the truth.  

     The sexual intimacy has dropped way off.  He is kind and helpful but he was even at our worst.  I know he cares for me, just not in love with me. Hell, am I in love with him?  I thought I was but love isn't untrusting is it?  

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